How does someone with a Monty Python sense of humor live with a dry toast

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Nikkilew72

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serious person & still feel happy? I actually find his lack of humor amusing and endearing, I wouldn't be asking if there weren't a problem. He has no humor, I don't complain, but whenever I am humorous, he shows his disapproval and tries to make me feel bad for being silly. Can't he just roll his eyes & shut up? I wouldn't mind him not getting it (which I am sure would be a problem for others) if he would just be quiet & let ME BE ME!!! There would be no issue....why can I accept his lack of humor while he having no grand opinions otherwise, will take time out of his workaholic day to basically tell me he finds me unattractive because I laugh at life's absurdities. Part of me finds this funny too, except I have to live with him, sheesh!
I have to live with him because I love him, because I have moved 32 times in 38 years and I am tired...because we have 5 kids including a 3 year old daughter we created, I have to and get to live with him....I just want to be happy while doing so. I do believe it is a bigger sacrifice to live with a somber person and keep your laughter to yourself, than it is for a somber person to somber person to live with a silly person, just ignore...shake your head, roll your eyes & go back to whatever you were doing...why take time out to tell that happy free spirit you disapprove of them? To me, it's like a person in a wheelchair scolding someone for walking!
sorry, messed up what I was typing, sure you understand what I meant
 
I think you should talk to him and tell him you'd appreciate it if he wouldn't say anything bad about your sense of humour..
 
Why do you have to live with him? He doesn't appreciate your wit, your intelligence, your sense of humor or apparently even your attractiveness.

Dump this deadbeat and find someone you can have fun with!
 
The person is not worried about what YOU think about him/her, so he/she remains sane and happy.
 
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