My gf and I have been together for almost 4 months now, we have kissed, but that's it. She has no interest in making out (I kiss her, she kisses me once then turns around) She more or less just likes me hugging her and it's getting a little frustrating because I don't want our relationship to stagnate. (it's our first relationship for either of us) I'm 22. How do I talk to her about it, what do I say?? I don't think she wants to talk about anything intimate (I even asked her if she liked back rubs or scratches better, and she said she didn't know, but in a awkward way) I don't know what to do or say, but I'm worried that we'll stay in the hug and peck kiss stage and never move on. We're both extremely shy, but I want to go further. Intercourse is out of the question with me, but I want to try other things. I don't want to make her nervous by putting my hand over that area and slowly rubbing either, because that might and most likely will freak her out. What do I say? do? How do I talk to her about this???