How long should you be in a relationship to meet ur significant other's parents?...

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...(its a serious relationship) We've been together for 1 year and 8 months. his parents live in another state, but have been here AT LEAST 10 times since we've been together. and i have yet to meet them. his brother & sister and their husband & wife live in our town, and i have yet to meet them too. He hasn't gone to meet my dad despite NUMEROUS times ive asked him to go. His parents are currently in town now, and i want to meet them. i told him that if i dont get to meet them this time then i've lost all hope in this relationship and that doesn't seem to have an effect on him. PLEASE HELP ME!!
No they do not know i exist. I'm almost positive he isn't cheating because i know his work schedule (it's on paper from his job) and he's usually home at the same time i get home. we dont have an apartment together, but he practically lives with me. he stays the night over here every night even though he has his own place. and we often go over there and it might be TMI but my panties are on his floor...
 
That sounds strange to me. There's nothing wrong with meeting the parents or him meeting yours. You guys are grown up and can date if you want, its not like you should be hiding it. It's even more disturbing that he doesn't seem effected by your losing hope on being together.
I could maybe see it if there was something between him and his parents and they didn't get along or something but him not wanting to meet yours?
When you are with someone, you get their family too and there's nothing you can do about it. He obviously is insecure or hiding something and whatever it is, he needs to tell you. You've been together long enough...
 
either he's embarassed about his family or he is not serious about commiting to you. ultimatums rarely work though. i would say drop the issue. he will not be convinced. guys turn the other way when you apply this tactic. i think it's too bad and i would be annoyed too, but if he has a great relationship with them but still isn't bringing you together it's possible he's eek...."just not that into you".
 
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