How many of you have ignored the red flags/little alarm bells at the...

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...beginning of relationships? The little voice that tells us this is not going to work out for the best.
Do you have regrets and lived to tell the tale.
 
I think these signs are ignored by many as other emotions are too strong, and sometimes you do live to regret in, or wonder how life would be if you listened to those warning signs.

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yes i have experienced that "red flag" feeling. i experieced that right when i started dating my current boyfriend. but now we have been together a year and a half and are going strong! we both love eachother dearly.

you never want to go against your gut feeling, but it is also human nature to get a little hesitant right when you have made a big decision (such as starting a new relationship).

my advice to you would be to ride this feeling out. perhaps it's just a little cold feet because you've started something new. but be wary if the feeling persists. if your heart keeps persisting that this red flag is not going away and you are not meant for this person then listen to that.
no worries! enjoy this person's company now and see where it takes you.
 
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