How often do you and your partner argue?

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wilem008

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Lately if feels as though my partner and I have been arguing more and more. Not fighting, just arguing.
We never used to so im not sure if this recent arguing means that we are just more comfortable with eachother or if it means there is a problem in our relationship.

We have been together for two years and have a small argument at least once a week. The arguements are always about something dumb and always get resolved within at least an hour.

What do you think? How often do you and your partner argue?
We still love eachother a great deal so im thinking our bickering is normal also - I think we're at a stage where we are so comfotable with eachother we dont hold back....it might be a good thing - that we're so honest with eachother!
 
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proudmomma23

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My guy and I have been together 10 years and argue about twice a week and it's usually about something really stupid. The big blow-outs are monthly usually when I'm "moody" : ) But that's normal. At least you guys haven't been dwelling on the small stuff since you say that the issue is usually resolved in an hour or so. You guys are just getting comfortable with each other. Good luck hoped I helped!
 
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FutureMrseBronner

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I'm with you on this; we do the same and it hasn't been a year yet. I tend to think it's the sign of true love. This is what I like to believe but it does not satisfy my frustrations. I've been married twice and never been through anything like this.

It may be a test from God to see how strong you truly are.
 
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FutureMrseBronner

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I'm with you on this; we do the same and it hasn't been a year yet. I tend to think it's the sign of true love. This is what I like to believe but it does not satisfy my frustrations. I've been married twice and never been through anything like this.

It may be a test from God to see how strong you truly are.
 
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Baby'sgotblueeyes

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We bicker about once a week, and have a big barney about once a month. Thats probably too much, but we have a very passionate relationship, good and bad, its just us and the way we are, until we find a better way to get our point across I guess.
 
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scram

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my husband and i would argue at least once a week but i try to keep my mouth shut about it cause i dont want to fight
 
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Maria

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Honey , arguing is a normal things .. my mom calls it "the spice of marriage" .. i believe it's true as long as there's no fighting, yelling, disrespecting , shouting ... etc

being honest with each other is another amazing things .. as long as you state ur feelings and put them out there

you are having a normal marriage life .. there's nothing wrong and everything is gonna be ok


now plz give me ur opinion on mine
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20090729225103AAZyzfZ
 
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openmarriedcouple

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It is healthy to have arguments with your partner, if you didn't then there is something wrong with you. As long as they get resolved, you are fine there always going to be something that will set you or him off as long as you talk about it after wards you will be fine. Then have sex after wards and you know everything is fine.
 
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MrandMrsWilliams

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Yes its normal. My husband and I bicker at least once a week.

At least you guys can speak your minds and in the end, you're still together yes? Aint love grand?
 
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MML

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Research has shown that the "love bug" wears off after two years, then you are faced with the real "you" in your relationship. What you two are experiencing are just normal every day little squabbles. They aren't earth shattering, but they can be annoying. You should sit down with each other and talk about what it is that's bugging you and make sure that the issues aren't deeper than you thought.
 
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