foxygirl1134
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My future brother in-law is only 16 and is like 450 lbs. His mom let him eat whatever he wants. And he gets whatever he wants because she feels bad that he's fat. He will eat a whole jar of mayo in one day along with a whole package of cheese. He eats that everyday with supper. He hasn't been in school for 3 years and doesn't even go outside to get any type of excercise. He sits in front of the computer all night and most of the morning and sleeps during the day. He only wakes up to eat and play video games. I live with them and it's driving me nuts that she's practicly killing him. My boyfriend and their Dad ignores the situation, but I can't. I need some advice or therapy soon.
And it's not like I'm getting involved in their life. And I'm only living there cause I'm in the process signing on my own home. It just annoys me that I sit there and watch this go on and nothing can be done. My bf and his Dad ignore this cause there is a loss cause for them. They have tried to help and nothing changes. His mom makes small comments like she would like him to loose weight and eat heathly but never follows through. It just drives me nuts to see it and know that I can't help. I like to help people too. But idk how to ignore it cause nothing can be done.
And it's not like I'm getting involved in their life. And I'm only living there cause I'm in the process signing on my own home. It just annoys me that I sit there and watch this go on and nothing can be done. My bf and his Dad ignore this cause there is a loss cause for them. They have tried to help and nothing changes. His mom makes small comments like she would like him to loose weight and eat heathly but never follows through. It just drives me nuts to see it and know that I can't help. I like to help people too. But idk how to ignore it cause nothing can be done.