How to deal with my parents constant arguing?

[dinxd]

My parents cant go 1 week without arguing with each other about the most stupidest things, and they will go on for weeks not talking to each other, my younger sister and I are always feeling insecure and anxious when there not talking, like yesterday my mum wanted to ask my dad something but said I have to come too in case they start arguing!! I said no! I'm not a referee and walked away, she got offended that i wasn't there for her but I don't think she understands how I'm feeling, I've noticed she only seems to care about her own feelings and not others. Im so confused because I hate this situation and I hate arguing with my mum. What should I do?!

 

[Ellie]

When your parents act like this and they are both in the same room tell them both, I am not going to take sides, do not ask me to get involved, and ask them if they both realize how this is affecting you.

 

[POLISHSANCEHZ]

Be as calm as you can and try to talk with one of them. Don't get emotional or raise your voice it they will respond the same. Being a referee might actually help, but only if they are talking to each other not using you as a messenger. They need to work it out, and maybe you can just be a calm rational voice to quell any emotions. I would say something like, we can work this out I just want everyone to be happy im sure none of us enjoy this i know we probably all want the same thing I don't know if that helps but I feel for you.