my friend (girl) is having a massive fight with my friend (her bf) because he keeps promising to stop smoking but he keeps doing it again anyway. their fight is so big it might break them up, she's really really really angry at him and lost her trust in him. i tried to talk to her about how hard it is to stop which she already knows anyway, i don't know what to tell her anymore except that i understand her bf and she should make more room for mistakes (relapse), but she's really had enough coz she keeps giving him a chance but he keeps breaking his promises and lies to her too. i think she's sick of talking to me about it too because im on her bf's side and i keep giving her advice on how not to get angry at him but try to understand and help him and i also think she got even more angrier at her bf in my process of "calming" her down.
i don't know what to tell her nor what to do anymore. i think i made their fight even worse. i was also chatting to her bf and i made her read what he said to me, about how sorry he is and how hard it is for him to quit and i don't know, i think THAT made it worse too. They've been together for 7 years and the bf's addiction might cause them to fall apart. What should I tell my friend (girl)? How can I help them?
i don't know what to tell her nor what to do anymore. i think i made their fight even worse. i was also chatting to her bf and i made her read what he said to me, about how sorry he is and how hard it is for him to quit and i don't know, i think THAT made it worse too. They've been together for 7 years and the bf's addiction might cause them to fall apart. What should I tell my friend (girl)? How can I help them?