How to get back together with highschool girlfriend who lost interest after

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thanksgiving break apartness? My girlfriend was really attached to me, and even though we talked all during thanksgiving break, the time apart caused her to lose interest in our relationship and now says she doesnt want a relationship at all. What is the best way to try to get back with this girl...i think this is a mistake and i really care about her. thanks!
 
Tell her how you truly feel about her and what she means to you. put your heart soul and your pride out on the line. it will do you wonders you'll see.
 
Common situation. I had a girlfriend for over 2 years, long distance and we would see each other during holidays or whenever we could. We got together when I was a junior and she was a senior so our first year we both were still in school, after she graduated she came and visited when she could (not often, due to work) and after I graduated I went there more often. But we went 5 months with no visits... and she lost interest and I found out it was because she had a girlfriend there (we're both lesbians btw lol). So we broke up in August, her relationship now sucks, this girl has cheated and they always argue so she sees the mistake she has made (ex leaving me for this other girl) And now she is coming to see me this christmas because she has realized she made a huge mistake...

So when you guys see each other again, I am sure the emotions will come flooding back, if they were true from the start. Good luck
 
If she lost interest being away from you for only a week, then she is not worth your time. Your fighting a winless fight by trying to get her back.
 
She's being a bit vague? I keep saying it, and I'll say it again, people have a right to know where they stand. But not in a bossy way. Just simply ask her why? What happened? Then take it from there.
 
give her space she'll come back. Don't constantly bother her about taking you back. give her time.
 
Keep talking to her as a friend then start flirting, just keep trying to get her to like you again, then when she does, ask her out!
 
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