How to get out of a relationship without hurting the other person?

[GavenRoberts]

ok i'm in a relationship since last 6 years but recently my feelings have faded away bcoz i think i'm in love with someone else.....i totally respect my current gf but i dont feel attracted to her anymore..i dont wanna hurt her coz im sure she'll be devastated when she finds out....i dont have the balls to break her heart!! what shall i do?? trust me i like her as a person but things have changed....i badly need some advice so that we go our seperate ways with out any major probs!! plz help!! (yeah and she's very possesive...probably a bit obsessed abt me) im desperate...dont know what to do!!

 

[SYDe1]

I'm a girl so i'll give this a shot. She's probably a bit obsessed because she can feel you pushing away. It's common for most girls. The best way is to just break up with her. Staying with her is only making her fall for you more. Good luck!

 

[risie]

i'm a girl and "ouch"..
well, just be honest..it will truly hurt her no matter what you do to make it easy. and be sure you are not letting go the wrong one! 6 years is quite a long time and you fall in love with someone else?

goodluck! honesty will set u both free! coz your hurting her more if you continue the relationship and just faking the hugs, the kiss and the sweet words..