some of my last attempts in a relationship have ended up bad 4 me, still i have a suprising amount of confidence left. I know that confidence is key. how can i appear confident. What are some cool poses while sitting/standing, what are some nice clothes that could appeal to a teenage girl. what are the first things that girls notice when they see a guy, shoe, clothes, teeth, etc.how should i react to any eye contact, cool things to say to girls you've never met, should i use cologne,how can i do all of this without trying 2 hard....i really must focus on my schoolwork....i am funny,kinda tall 5'7 maybe, i am a twin,but i am kinda shy around girls who are more popular than me (i am popular 2 but more on the midlevel)....how can i do all of this while still being myself