how to loose body fat around stomach without getting bulky?

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i want to loose weight around my hips, waist, and abs. But i don't want to anything that will my thighs even bulkier. they are pretty bulky and i don't like that. know any way how to make them less 'bulky'. it sucks because it's all muscle or watever and it won't go away. im 12 almost 13 so i can't go to a gym . yea so... what kinds of exercises should i do?