How to make my fiances daughter less attached to her mother?

NyankeeN

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Right now everytime me and my fiance hug or kiss her daughter jumps in and tries to fight for attetion, specially when we are in laying in bed. yesterdaymy fiance and i couldnt spend any time alone because her daughter would not let go of her mother. Supposely this only happens when im around. I think its because the way her mother treats her. everytime she does it her mother welcomes it. her friends even came to look for her and go play, and she refused. She didnt leave the room once yesterday and was annoying me since it always happens. I talked to my fiance about this morning, annd told her that her behavior is not normal and that she should speak with her daughter so it could stop. at first she got a little defensive about it saying she was her only daughter blah blah....and i said its not the two of them anymore and that we have to make it work for the three of us not just her. I mean me and her daughter get along great now, but when we get intimate shes always jumping in the middle. HOw should we fix this and how can i amke the mother understand why it shouldnt be like this. i understand that its normal for a kid to be attached to their parents sometimes, but 24 7???
 
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