Our surrogate mother is an angel, she had our two children ages 12 and 8. We use to be in big contact, now we talk to her about once every 3 o4 4 months just saying, hi how are things going. Our 12 year old wants to meet her, and now the 8 year old too. They've always wanted to meet her and have actually never talked to her or have heard from her, ever. She moved back to the states as she said in her last e-mail, I told my husband and my husband told my son and now he says to me everyday, "Call her! I want to me my mom" he says it kind of joking-like but when we always talk about her they refer to her as mom, saying "not you, my other mom!" she doesn't know anything about it and I'm afraid she'll get freaked out.....? it's been 8 years since we last saw her and she's gone on with her life.
If this was YOUR situation how would you reply?
If this was YOUR situation how would you reply?