My husband and I have been married a year and a half, he is still very loving to me, but he never wants to have sex. I found porn hidden in our spare room the other day and when I asked him about it he lied to me. I was able to find out the truth from his bank statement where he bought the stuff, he finally admitted it, but he refuses to talk to me about it. He will kiss me and snuggle with me, just nothing else. I know he doesn't have trouble getting it up, cause thats no problem, he still says no even when its ready to go! I've tried so hard to talk to him and work it out. I've tried doing new things and nothing seems to help. What could it be??