I am 32 years old and have been seperated from my significant other (we have been together 11 years) however because of some infidelity issues we have had in the past ( he cheated on me) I can't seem to forgive him and the past always comes up. I've been faithful to him for 11 years and we have 2 children together but now it seems that since I have given up on the relationship and stopped caring about what he is doing now he wants to try to all of a sudden work on the relationship. I have met a man who is 16 years older than I am and like him very much but we have decided that we need to wait to see what will happen between me and my significant other. (We are not married- don't know why never felt the need to get married I guess) but I really like this guy and never felt this way towards any other man since I have been with my kids dad. Any suggestions as to what I should do? I would really appreciate a mans point of view.