SusanJohnson
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...with the dirty jokes? We're two months in and not officially dating, just enjoying each other's company and getting to know one another at a comfortable pace.
For the most part, he's sweet as can be, and whenever I've mentioned sex and my preference to take things slowly he's been supportive and comforting.
I sound like such a tool for complaining, I'm sure, but it's just even after those talks, he'll shortly return to making a lot of dirty jokes about us, or just blatantly saying that he wants me.
I just can't tell if he gets it or not--I've asked him, and he says he does--but he'll go from saying he understands the need to take it slow to saying that the things he wants to do to me are illegal in several states in the same sentence.
(Charming, huh?)
My usual response is to laugh it off, so I take responsibility for giving him the impression it's okay. And it is okay, he can say what he likes as far as I'm concerned, as long as he gets that for all the dirty jokes, he's still not getting in my pants 'till I'm ready.
But what does his behavior sound like to you? That he gets it, or that he comforts to keep me around but doesn't intend to actually take it slow?
Thanks for reading all this, and for any advice.
For the most part, he's sweet as can be, and whenever I've mentioned sex and my preference to take things slowly he's been supportive and comforting.
I sound like such a tool for complaining, I'm sure, but it's just even after those talks, he'll shortly return to making a lot of dirty jokes about us, or just blatantly saying that he wants me.
I just can't tell if he gets it or not--I've asked him, and he says he does--but he'll go from saying he understands the need to take it slow to saying that the things he wants to do to me are illegal in several states in the same sentence.
(Charming, huh?)
My usual response is to laugh it off, so I take responsibility for giving him the impression it's okay. And it is okay, he can say what he likes as far as I'm concerned, as long as he gets that for all the dirty jokes, he's still not getting in my pants 'till I'm ready.
But what does his behavior sound like to you? That he gets it, or that he comforts to keep me around but doesn't intend to actually take it slow?
Thanks for reading all this, and for any advice.