i came out as a lesbian, and my friend guessed that I liked her, now i have lost her

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friendship? i need to show her that i care about our friendship, at moment, its like she forget that we were even friends i want to write letter to prove that she has always been my friend, i live with her and need to make this right because i worked so hard to try and be her friend i was going to move becuase i like her but i stayed because she was my , ever since she guessed i like, know its comfirmed, she doesn't want to know me, i know i did some foolish things wrong, but i want to make this right, would should i say in the letter, she has said things like i was manipulative , she feels naive and uncomfortable now and that she will never go out with me again, i feel really sad, becuase her friendships means alot what do i say so she knows. i would never and have never put her in any situation where she wouldnt of like, i thinks she feels our friendship is lie becuase i had feelings

she did say she will talk to at one point, deep down she knows we are friend , but she seems angry and pissed off at the situation

she did say she will talk to at one point, deep down she knows we are friend , but she seems angry and pissed off at the situation, so i went home to give us both space, but i need to go back to uni, thing is there is 4 of us and i don't want to break that up too. know i am worried when i get back and all the thinking and silly replies i have send she wont want to talk who knows what her friends have said.
 
That's not your real friend, you shouls just let her go however much you like her. Because she's making such a big deal out of nothing. Exactly what does she feel naïve about? Leave her alone, you don't need her.
 
You just got your first real taste of homophobia!
We may live in the 21st. century but that doesn't mean everyone's mind changed just because the century did.
The best solution for you at this time is to give her space & lots of it. Don't call, write, or anything. Give her space.
"you worked so hard to try & be her friend!" What is that all about? You don't work hard to try a be a friend to someone, it just happens.
Time to look in a mirror & figure out where you went wrong!
Time to realize that you opened your mouth & got slammed for it. It hurts, I know, but you have learned (I hope) a valuable lesson.
"Be careful who you confide in!"
 
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