rottenlemon
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My boyfriend travels a lot on business. Last year he traveled to Italy for 6 months for business (I was there for 2), then he came back home for 7 months. Now he's in Italy again.
So during the 7 months that he was home, i checked his phone and noticed a text message from Italy (with a Girl's name). The message was sent to his american cell. So obviously this girl's got his american number. I read the message, nothing weird but just a bit friendly.. So I just kept it to myself.
When he went back to Italy several months ago, after he settled down I visited him. I checked his Italian phone and there she was again..... messaging him.
The message read something like "hi dear how's it going? i wonder if i would see you tonight (party)".
I kept it to myself up until now. I can't find any hardcore evidence but this is very suspicious.
So today I asked my boyfriend if there are any girls in Italy that would exchange txt messages with him even when he was back home. I was hoping he would say "yeah just a few friends", i would've just dropped the whole thing. But he said no.
I asked, what if i checked your phone when you were home and saw an italian girl messaging you? He said no. I asked again, what if i also checked your phone in italy and saw the same girl messaging you? He said no. And he told me to stop accusing unless i have evidence.
Well.... i do have her name but i really dont' have the guts to tell him. Should I? Should i just get it over with right here right now? Afterall it was very unethical of me to have checked his phone, even though he had done the same to me before.
So during the 7 months that he was home, i checked his phone and noticed a text message from Italy (with a Girl's name). The message was sent to his american cell. So obviously this girl's got his american number. I read the message, nothing weird but just a bit friendly.. So I just kept it to myself.
When he went back to Italy several months ago, after he settled down I visited him. I checked his Italian phone and there she was again..... messaging him.
The message read something like "hi dear how's it going? i wonder if i would see you tonight (party)".
I kept it to myself up until now. I can't find any hardcore evidence but this is very suspicious.
So today I asked my boyfriend if there are any girls in Italy that would exchange txt messages with him even when he was back home. I was hoping he would say "yeah just a few friends", i would've just dropped the whole thing. But he said no.
I asked, what if i checked your phone when you were home and saw an italian girl messaging you? He said no. I asked again, what if i also checked your phone in italy and saw the same girl messaging you? He said no. And he told me to stop accusing unless i have evidence.
Well.... i do have her name but i really dont' have the guts to tell him. Should I? Should i just get it over with right here right now? Afterall it was very unethical of me to have checked his phone, even though he had done the same to me before.