I could use an opinion. What do you think about this situation. [See inside.]?

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urrrp

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*When answering, please no rude or childish comments.* Ok, I met a friend online and we've been talking for awhile. Eventually, we ended up cybering and during it he said: "Shut up b*tch." While I was talking. I got offended because I affiliate the word b*tch with something derogatory and degrading to women. So I told him how I felt and he replies: "Well, all women like that." I replied, "I never had a man ever call me such a word in any way before." The he's talking about: "Well, you must not know guys." Anyway, I let it ride and we talk a day later and we were playing around. You know when people do stuff like, "*thinks*", or "*smiles*" to show what action they "pretend" to do on the net? Well, he "pretended" to slap me. (i.e. "*Slaps you in the face*") Should I be upset at him for his behavior? Should I end all communication with him? What should I do?
 
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urkey82

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He is obviously into the rough stuff and you are not. If you continue this and it comes to a meeting and a relationship then this is what you have to look forward to. Real men do not tell their women to "Shut up Bit**" while having sex or cybering with them. If a situation makes you uncomfortable then you should always get out of it. Tell him that you are looking for a different kind of guy and drop him.
 
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urtenfifteen

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If you have already explained that you find those comments & innuendo's offending, & he's still doing them, then yes, end communication with him.If someone does not respect you than they most certainly are not worthy of your friendship!
 
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uroyk

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he just likes it rough... (the cybering) which probably means he likes rough sex, you do not, you are not compatible with him and it's only over the net so who really cares? if you're uncomfortable don't talk to him anymore.
 
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urkey82

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i think you should end it because the word bitch is degradeing and not all guys are like that to be his on gender he doesnt know much at all but dont worry about it"bitch means dog a dog barks bark is on trees , trees are apart of nature and nature is beautiful" so thank him for the compliment if u get it and thats fnot my quote
 
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Urology

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Well I would say from this that this guy is into the rough stuff...that's what gets him going. Maybe he doesn't get it in the real world and acts it out online or maybe both. But I think the point is that you don't like it....he does. Not only does it not turn you on but you find it offensive (you aren't the only woman who feels this, not every woman wants to be called bitch and slapped...even online). My biggest problem with this is that you explained how it made you feel when he called you bitch and then on the next conversation he continued this behavior. I don't know if you are looking for love online or just fun--but either way I would say that this guy is not right for you. Move on and find a guy that will respect your feelings and gets turned on by the same stuff you do. Hope this helps.
 
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