I don't mean to sound unfriendly, but this woman I met at a party recently...

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...messages me every couple of days? I'm in my forties and met a lady at a relative's party in May and we just got chatting and gave each other phone number.
The next week she asked did I want to go out for tea (dinner) on the Friday night, I told her she was welcome to come to the local club that my husband and I were going , which she did( she's single).That was OK.
It's just that every couple of days she asks do I want to meet her for coffee, did I want to go out for tea last night (I had to say no, cause I was working late). Then she said how about coffee today, which I went to the local cafe at the shops and spent a couple of hours with her.
Then as I was leaving to come home, she asked what we were doing tonight, and I told her my husband was working and she said, Oh , I might come round. She just rang and I made an excuse that I wanted to have an early night, cause she's starting to annoy me, being so full on, not that I said that obviously, just that I was going to have an early night.
I hope it didn't sound rude, but I just felt like a quiet night with a book , besides - I just saw her today!
What do you think?
Was that rude?
 
It isnt rude to want some time to yourself, no

She just seems a bit lonely.

Dont expect her to just get the hints though, because she might not.

If she is irritating you, then it wouldnt be fair to lead her on.
 
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