..."fleshlight".is that cheating? opinions? so me and my bf have been together for well over a year. i was going on his computer to type something up on google and saw that he was looking at a fleshlight page.i dont know if hes interested in getting one or if it was his friend looking it up.i asked him if he was going to get one and he said no way. do you think this is a form of cheating, or being unfaithful? opinions from men and woman are welcome. id want to know BOTH sides of the stories. ^_^