i got upset and friends are meant to comfort, mine laughed?

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my "friend" is upset with me for as she put it,
crying and making it awkward,
i got really upset over something stupid to do with her and then 2 others joined in, i couldn't help getting upset, but she says she was having a joke, and i tease her aswell, when i tease her however she shouts and gets really annoyed, i apologised, and i hadn't even realised i upset her then i felt guilty for a while. now she saw me crying, knew i was upset then bitched behind my back to another friend,
no one wants to take sides, its a stupid argument I KNOW, but i'm really upset by it, what can i do? it's going to be really awkward
 
some people are better at making people feel better when they're upset than others and omse people get more upset over one thing than another person would.
Maybe if teasing each other makes one another upest then don't do it int he future?
Just talk to her and just tell her how you feel, be completly honest and try and resolve it. Maybe if you cant resolve it it might be better to give each other a bit of space, sometimes things can get a bit intense when you see a friend or someone you know a lot of the time. People can tend to get a bit too comfortable around each other that they notice all of the other persons flaws and irratible habits and know each other well enough to be able to act annoyed when you are annoyed or insult each other. Maybe just spend some time with another friend so things can cool off. hope i helped :)
 
Friends are also meant to provide perspective when you are blowing something out of proportion.
 
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