my mom was married to him for 2 years then divorced and now back together they have been back together for about another 2 years. Now he think he can tell me what and my brother what to do i am 16 an brother is 21, hes a drunk and has put my mom in debt over 20,000 dollars and ruined her credit by buying a house when they were married with her name on the morrgage and not paying bills. I am sick of it he has cheated on my mom with several woman, there is so much more and im about to beat the sh** out of him. I talk to my mom about it and all she does is try to change the subject i think she uses him to pay the bills but when i say that she gets very mad can some one please help me.