I have a dating dilemma!!! I am using the site eharmony and have met two

[MargretLeslie]

guys! how do i let one down gently? I think they are both great guys, but have a much better connection with one over the other. I think the other is a great guy and i have already gone on a few dates with him and even though we aren't officially dating i feel like he thinks we are. How do i go about telling him i don't want to see him anymore after i already lead him on? I don't want to be rude but want to stop it before it goes any further. Thanks for all the help!!!!