...computer and anyway to tell his loco? He tells me he is in another country on business anyway to find out ?
Is there anything I should be worried about as far as the IM thing
First, there are real men out there to have relationships with, so please go find one.
There is no such thing as an internet "boyfriend". He is just some loser trying to scam you, that is if he even is a man. For all you know he is in prison, or even worse a psycho on the loose. The least of your worries should be your identity. Be smart and stop all contact, then get out anf find a real man. They are everywhere and not at all hard to get.