I don't mind honesty, but please keep your comments curtious, theres a way to say things respectful & honest!
And spare me the grass is greener or a cheating lecture...
I'm not saying I having any intentions of cheating thats not what I seek theres a difference between intending to do something & thinking, feeling, & having an urge creep up...
Now anyways seriously I really do love my hubby! He is overall a good guy! He is infact a great lover, so its not the whole he doesn't satisfy me thing! We are very in tune & I can pretty much orgasm every time we have sex. & he does! I have had every O imaginable! We have sex often so thats not an issue.
Like I said above its not that I want to literally go and cheat! I know my boundaries & never cross!
But is it normal to see a hot man @ the gas pump & think I would love to fuck the shit outta him! Or in my case cuz I am Bi Man or Women (but thats really not relevent to the question cuz I really thinking bout me & women bout equally), or @ a register, or restaurant, or the kids school functions, I see people every where that I find hot I just think oh if I wasn't married!
I am not sure if a back story is needed here or not:
Married in 06 I was 22 he was 25 we each had a child from seperate people, then had one together!
Have had our share of bouts of both trials & tribulations!
Pros:
Him: Our sex is amazing, I respect his out look on life/admire his character, & think he is a good father!
Me: I am very sensual, I am good hearted, I am attentive
Cons:
Him: He is not sentimental/attentive, he can be un-compassionate, very stubborn
Me:I can be very inconsiderate, selfish, & flat out self absorbed!
Well thats what i got I don't know if our back story plays a role in my sexual urges/thoughts, if it just personal obstacle/faze, if its normal/average, or if its something that is deeper pyschologiocal!
I would like decent insight not childish & rude comments please!
Does anyone else love their hubby but then find themself wishing they weren't married to ful-fill a sexual fanatsy, but then other aspects wants to be married!
And spare me the grass is greener or a cheating lecture...
I'm not saying I having any intentions of cheating thats not what I seek theres a difference between intending to do something & thinking, feeling, & having an urge creep up...
Now anyways seriously I really do love my hubby! He is overall a good guy! He is infact a great lover, so its not the whole he doesn't satisfy me thing! We are very in tune & I can pretty much orgasm every time we have sex. & he does! I have had every O imaginable! We have sex often so thats not an issue.
Like I said above its not that I want to literally go and cheat! I know my boundaries & never cross!
But is it normal to see a hot man @ the gas pump & think I would love to fuck the shit outta him! Or in my case cuz I am Bi Man or Women (but thats really not relevent to the question cuz I really thinking bout me & women bout equally), or @ a register, or restaurant, or the kids school functions, I see people every where that I find hot I just think oh if I wasn't married!
I am not sure if a back story is needed here or not:
Married in 06 I was 22 he was 25 we each had a child from seperate people, then had one together!
Have had our share of bouts of both trials & tribulations!
Pros:
Him: Our sex is amazing, I respect his out look on life/admire his character, & think he is a good father!
Me: I am very sensual, I am good hearted, I am attentive
Cons:
Him: He is not sentimental/attentive, he can be un-compassionate, very stubborn
Me:I can be very inconsiderate, selfish, & flat out self absorbed!
Well thats what i got I don't know if our back story plays a role in my sexual urges/thoughts, if it just personal obstacle/faze, if its normal/average, or if its something that is deeper pyschologiocal!
I would like decent insight not childish & rude comments please!
Does anyone else love their hubby but then find themself wishing they weren't married to ful-fill a sexual fanatsy, but then other aspects wants to be married!