...had sex in over 3 years? I don't know how to act in this situation. I am going on vacation next month with a man that is really into me. I don't really know how to respond to him because it has been so long since i have dated. I just got out of a long relationship. Can someone give me some romantic tips to make our vacation special? my mind tells me to let things flow naturally but i have butterflies in my stomach and I am scared to death.