I just meet my boyfriend and were having a baby, everything happened so fast

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what should i do? I just meet my boyfriend a few months ago, and were already having a baby, this isnt something neither of us wanted, Im only 20 and have my whole life ahead of me... im 12 weeks and i feel like were only staying together because of the baby, i mean we even moved in together, everything is just happening so fast, i dont feel like i love him or that were ment to be together, what should i do?
I dont believe in abortion and i am happy to be having a baby, i am just unsure about the relationship and where it stands?
 
Well if you dont love him, then why did you move in with him? How do you feel about the baby itself? A child needs a parent who loves them and is happy about life, and if you are going to try and force a relationship with a person you are not even sure you want to be with then, I think you should reconsider the relationship. If you are gonig to be unhappy in the future this will have negative affects on your child raising. So maybe you should really reconsider this relationship, and maybe instead of moving in together, you should still try to see where the relationship will lead. People will say it is to late to consider all of this, but now is as good a time as ever. You are already starting a family with him, and you just need to make sure that you are in love, or even want to be with him!

You can both be good parents without having to be together.
 
You shouldn't stay together just for the baby. If he wants to be in you and your baby's life in a different way, that would be better. I know you didn't mention abortion, but I would really like for you to consider adoption if you can't keep your baby. Check out this beautiful video that my mom actually sent me today. Good luck to you!! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=APkV40vUhWs
 
It's too late for an abortion.], but you don't have to saddle youreself with the baby. Contact an organisation that helps unwanted pregnancies.., These are good people. Stay away from Catholics, at all costs.
 
if you don't love him why are you still with him? give the baby up for adoption or have an abortion the baby deserves a mother and father who love each other and are together
 
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