interested.? well starting it off; there are two guys, lets say adam and john (not real names). i have known adam since 7th grade (im in 10th) last year we started becoming really good friends, and john i have known each other since last year, he was a junior my freshman year. during last year i started to like adam, like i fell head over heels in love with him. now adam and i have been arguing a whole lot, and im starting to not love him the same (adam and i never dated we were just really good friends). Now John comes into the picture, and he asks if we can hang out, i say yes cause john and i are really good friends (Adam despises John because he says John flirts with me all the time) well i lied to Adam and told him i was staying home and i went to a jazz concert with John, so at the concert john put his arm around me and we held hands the whole time. John and i almost kissed like 3 times but didnt. Adam found out and yelled at me and now im really upset.should i take a risk with an older guy, John. or should John and i just be friends with benefits? i'd like opinions on the whole thing, thanks, best answer gets 10 points!!!
