I lost my true love some 3 years back but i still could not forget him.?

[ZindgihurtW]

Now i am married and he knows everything about my past. He is very nice and loving person. He loves me and understands my feelings. But i could not have love in my heart for him. I'm trying my best but still could not give him his love. Whenever he wants to love me i just deny that i don't have the same feelings for him and he got frustated. Even after 3 months of our marriage we have no physical relationships. I feel very guilty and sad. I sometimes think that i had spoilt his life. Pls. help me. I want to give him his love but i could not forget my first love. I have only emotional love with my first love and nothing more.

 

[dellabutt]

To be honest the best way your going to give him your love is if, you set him free.. honestly you love someone else and apparently it's not going to change over time, sure you may love your husband but hes not meant for you, if you truely want to give him love and a happy life, then let him go, let him find someone that will love him with her whole heart. Your not a bad person you just already gave your heart to someone else. It's not yours to decide how to love this (husband) other man. I know it's gonna be painful to let go of him, knowing your going to be alone, believe me im in the same situtation now, but i truely believe that freeing him is for the best.. he deserves to find someone that will love him with all her heart.