...she interested for real? So here is the story... I have been sort of going out with this lady... she happens to be a client at MY advertising agency as well so we have knon each other for 2 years and we were always friends.
We have been out and made out a couple of times but to be honest she seems very undecided about what she wants at least from what I gather.
After watching her go hot and then cold and then hot again... I decided that I am not up for games. I sent her an sms that explained that I am not willing to be around someone that dosn't know what they want... and I have no patince for games when it is with some one that I am really interested in. Both me and her have enough people around us if we want to mess around... But because I don't feel its right to mess around with her I made it painfully clear that I think we should leave it at that with no hard feeling.
I was very direct and straight.
I want to make sure that she understands where I am standing!
She answered in a word saying that I am rude... and I just said... I am not rude... Just making sure to be Clear. Sorry if you think other wise. We left it at that.
So that was that and the next day went by as all the others. We spoke on the phone about work and all was cool. I was feeling good that I left it alone.
All of a sudden she then sent me a message that evening asking to go for cocktails. I accepted and she came over to this place we ususaly meet adn seemed kind of streessed.
She tried to explain to me that she is a very scared and afraid and thats why she like to take it slow with me. I said slow is fine... But Back and forth is not. She agreed that I have a point but again kind of insisted that we stay all afternnon together... She again ended up in my arms and we had fun... but no kissing... we kind of made plans to do other stuff aswell...
What do you really think is going on with this girl? Is she playing games? is she jsut keeping her options open? Or is she really into me ?
I have layed all my cards on the table and I am sure she has got the message that no playing around with me. And she still shows up?
What should I do and what is on her mind? Is she for real...? Or should I just drop it?
We have been out and made out a couple of times but to be honest she seems very undecided about what she wants at least from what I gather.
After watching her go hot and then cold and then hot again... I decided that I am not up for games. I sent her an sms that explained that I am not willing to be around someone that dosn't know what they want... and I have no patince for games when it is with some one that I am really interested in. Both me and her have enough people around us if we want to mess around... But because I don't feel its right to mess around with her I made it painfully clear that I think we should leave it at that with no hard feeling.
I was very direct and straight.
I want to make sure that she understands where I am standing!
She answered in a word saying that I am rude... and I just said... I am not rude... Just making sure to be Clear. Sorry if you think other wise. We left it at that.
So that was that and the next day went by as all the others. We spoke on the phone about work and all was cool. I was feeling good that I left it alone.
All of a sudden she then sent me a message that evening asking to go for cocktails. I accepted and she came over to this place we ususaly meet adn seemed kind of streessed.
She tried to explain to me that she is a very scared and afraid and thats why she like to take it slow with me. I said slow is fine... But Back and forth is not. She agreed that I have a point but again kind of insisted that we stay all afternnon together... She again ended up in my arms and we had fun... but no kissing... we kind of made plans to do other stuff aswell...
What do you really think is going on with this girl? Is she playing games? is she jsut keeping her options open? Or is she really into me ?
I have layed all my cards on the table and I am sure she has got the message that no playing around with me. And she still shows up?
What should I do and what is on her mind? Is she for real...? Or should I just drop it?