I meet this girl online. She was the first one to email. We talked on and off over email. But one day we where emailing and I gave her my number. We finally wen't out one day. She is a little chubby then what I usually date. We wen't to a bar and had a couple of beers. We ended up at my house and went all the way. After that, we have hanged out and did the same things...She even flipped on me, On where is this going? But We have been hanging out for less than 3 weeks.
I haven't brought up anything about relationships or serious matters. I've been light with my conversations and just having a good time. But I think(Know) she wants more....But she slept with me in the first day(she said she never done that) and slept over. It would be cool to have someone around. (I haven't been in a relationship in 5 yrs, Just casual dating). But how Can i slow it down, where we don't talk,txt,email,aim everyday. I want to have my alone time and hang out every other day. She is sensitive, I don't want to hurt her feelings, I don't want her to think that I was being a player and stuff like that. I'm not like that. But I want to slow it down. I don't think this is going anywhere serious. I'm not that attracted to her physically. Don't get me wrong she is pretty. But she is not my type as I thought she was. It would be cool to be friends or friends w/ benefits.
Thanks!! Please help me with some advice.
I haven't brought up anything about relationships or serious matters. I've been light with my conversations and just having a good time. But I think(Know) she wants more....But she slept with me in the first day(she said she never done that) and slept over. It would be cool to have someone around. (I haven't been in a relationship in 5 yrs, Just casual dating). But how Can i slow it down, where we don't talk,txt,email,aim everyday. I want to have my alone time and hang out every other day. She is sensitive, I don't want to hurt her feelings, I don't want her to think that I was being a player and stuff like that. I'm not like that. But I want to slow it down. I don't think this is going anywhere serious. I'm not that attracted to her physically. Don't get me wrong she is pretty. But she is not my type as I thought she was. It would be cool to be friends or friends w/ benefits.
Thanks!! Please help me with some advice.