When my ex had our baby i failed to get involved the 1st 8 months &she dumped me. Now i want to be part of my baby's life, she says ok she can't prevent me from seeing our son. The problem is she has been spending time with a guy & i keep saying to her you have a boyfriend but she says they are just mates. This is my child too, so if she is seeing this guy i want to know & meet him because he will be around my son. Why wont she meet me halfway over this?