Sorry.
That's how I lost the love of my life. I found out thirty years later that it was probably the best thing that ever happened to me. Also there probably are some other things wrong. They know it and think it's you, while it's them. Life is rarely simple. Similar things have happened to me all too often for me to think it's a coincidence. The gods are protecting you for something more important. Use your intuition and use your intuition to get more facts.
"The only real valuable thing is intuition."
Einstein
Be as smart as the great minds. That was and is their trick. I challenge you to check it out to see if I'm right.