pinkingofyou
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- Oct 14, 2010
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I don't like the friends I'm with right now. We used to be great friends in grade school but now we've grown apart and I'm hanging on to their new group by a thread. I'm never invited to things (unless I invite myself) and I'm never their first choice. Halloween is coming up and I have no one to go with since they're slowly excluding me from their group.
I know people say "make new friends" but it's easier said than done. It's hard to switch friend groups quickly and takes time. I do have a group to switch to in mind but I don't know if they'll want to include me, I'm friendly with most people in it but I just don't know a casual way to say "hey can I be in your group" LOL.
Also for halloween I have no one to go with since no one want's to include me
I feel awkward pestering people to see what their doing to try and "fit in".
Overall I need advice on how to change groups casually and how to casually invite myself on halloween since I don't have anyone else to go with yet I'm not good friends enough.
Please do tell me if you've been through this before I really need some encouragement.
Also I'm going to another school after this grade (not new people new school) so I'm trying to "re invent" myself to become more friends with the other group. I feel like that is my one and only chance.
And I never do anything after school either while they're all hanging out I'm alone, I need someone to tell me there's still hope LOL
I know people say "make new friends" but it's easier said than done. It's hard to switch friend groups quickly and takes time. I do have a group to switch to in mind but I don't know if they'll want to include me, I'm friendly with most people in it but I just don't know a casual way to say "hey can I be in your group" LOL.
Also for halloween I have no one to go with since no one want's to include me
I feel awkward pestering people to see what their doing to try and "fit in". Overall I need advice on how to change groups casually and how to casually invite myself on halloween since I don't have anyone else to go with yet I'm not good friends enough.
Please do tell me if you've been through this before I really need some encouragement.
Also I'm going to another school after this grade (not new people new school) so I'm trying to "re invent" myself to become more friends with the other group. I feel like that is my one and only chance.
And I never do anything after school either while they're all hanging out I'm alone, I need someone to tell me there's still hope LOL