i really love him...he likes me but nothing serious.. its a one-sided

[hiotya]

relationship...i need help ending it? I have realised with time that I had been in a one-sided relationship for a year now...with no commitment from the other end and I am still not out of it. Any ways/experiences that can help me get over ? I still love the guy so very much, I still care for him and although I know I can never be with him forever -- I still long to see him and know and talk about him. But since this won't last forever, I dont really want to go on with it either ? Please don't suggest dating another guy since I really am not in a state of mind to think about someone else right now. Thank you to all who took time in reading this short tale of my life and contributing whatever you have.

 

[Luiza]

If you feel like that, and you are still with a guy you also need to realize that by wasting time with hime you are missing the opportunity to meet someone special for life. Think how great love can be when with someone who truly loves you, who is commited, try to imagine him, create in ur mind actions what he would do for you, compare to your present bf. You need to get out of this relationship. Its not easy, you will be hurt, but think - is it better to suffer a little time, or is it better to be hurt all your life. Think also about the possibilty while he will betray you. Is that what you are waiting for by staying with him?? Write a list of things that make him a bad person to you. And keep busy, try to find a new hobby. I know its hard.. But hey - love doesnt hurt, its lack of love that hurts and you experience that. Please dont let him screw your life. Or you will regret it forever.