it.. but later chose not to buy it? Now the guy said that i have not send the payments yet.. well i dont want it anymroe...how can tell the seller..i don't want..it..therefor i am not going to send the payment through mail or paypal..
Thats not fair and you should keep your committment, your rating at Ebay will show non payment and sellers can remove your bids if they want too. You won the auction, write the person, offer to pay for a reinsertion fee, and he may let you off the hook, but he doesnt have to.