I slept with someone RUMORED to have HIV/AIDS in 2004.Its now 2009.could...

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...i still get a "FALSE" negative result? 2004, we had unprotected sex. i know a lot of other girls who had relations with this guys also. i got tested about a year ago, and it came back negative. all these other girls are going on with their lives...getting married and having kids.....should i do the same? it was never proven he had aids, just a rumor. but i sometimes feel guily for being with my boyfriend.....because even though i got tested, some say hiv/aids can take 10 years to come up as a positive test result. is this true? should i be single forever? this haunts me. its been 5 years and i still fear that one day ill get tested again and it will come out positive. is there any way i can find out if this guy does have hiv/aids? i was 18, he was 33. very abusive and neglecting. i hate him
 
If you are still concerned, then you need to be tested again. After 6 months, the results are about as accurate as they're going to get. Unfortunately, there is no way you can find out if he has HIV unless you ask him. Get tested again if you're still worried, but it's unlikely that you have HIV.

If you were HIV positive because of this encounter, you would have felt like you had the flu - drowsy, runny nose, etc. about 2 weeks after you had sex with him becuase your body would have gone into an autoimmune response trying to kill the virus. If you didn't have these symptoms, and were tested negative, then theres nothing to worry about.
 
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