...Read before you judge.? She's shared with me her most personal thoughts and opinions. I've been her "rock" when she needed someone. I know it's wrong to have lied, but I can't change what I've done. I love her and she said she loves me. (also before she said she could never love a girl). I'm not expecting much I just want to know what to do.. If you love someone then find out their the opposite gender could you still love them? I need advice.