can you please help.. I think I'm deformed. I'm really tight.. and well I can only stick one finger, two hurts a bit.. Well I can't stick a tampon in there and honestly when i feel in there, theres bumps and it just feels weird.. like it closes up? Sometimes when I'm turned on.. i feel the way through.. but when I'm not I can't feel, again like it closes up? Are the bumps normal? If i press on them they feel uncomfortable . I'm just worried.. like what if I can't ever have sex? ... ahhh help?