if a guy turns three times to take a glance at a girl, is he interested?

Selena

Member
There is a guy in school, I often find him taking a glance at me.
Our major is different so I see him sometimes in the library or cafeteria.

Today I was walking to the cafeteria and there he was, sitting with his friends.
I saw his back, suddenly he turned his head (it must be accident) he saw me
then he turned a bit once to the side and checked again.
After 1 second he turned again his head and looked at my face.

I set near his table, and our eyes met more than 5 times in 10 minutes.
Even if he was talking with his friends. He was keep making an eye contact to me.
so did I....

is he interested?
what does it mean when guys keep taking a glance at a girl, making an eye contact.
He is really good looking, law student (must be clever), seems like often and has a lot of girlfriends.

But I know that he won't approach me unless I do something!
People usually find me very uptight... (outlooking problem)
should I ? I don´t wanna make a fool of myself!!! but I´m willing to do something to break the ice between this guy. If you tell me if there is something about this guy.
HELP!
 

Gina

Member
It genuinely sounds as if he's interested in you. At least, he's definitely noticed you based on the frequency of his glances. Maybe you should approach him since you think he won't approach you. You never know what could be until you try. I'd suggest starting off with light conversation, like waiting until he's alone and asking if he knows what time it is or something. That may make it easier for him to start talking to you first.
 

Abhildestructor

New member
It means that we either find you hot and worth checking out or we are interested or BOTH.
So there's no harm in starting casually and friends! And then let the chips fall where they may <3
 

blackheart

New member
i think he is interested in you.but he might be thinking like you i.e. not to make fool of himself..so, i think you should first check if he is interested in you by asking him about the casual things and check his signs.
 

Okeee

New member
Babe, if a guy isn't approaching you, he's not that into you. You could serve yourself up on a platter like you want, and yeah, he will take what you are offering... OH YES, he will. But after that he's done um..."eating". Then moves on to something else....

If a guy doesn't approach you, it's only because of two reasons: ONLY these two:
-He doesnt think you are worth it.
-He just isn't that interested to begin with and is waiting for the "better offer" to show up.

My advice? Why arent you seeking out the better offers too? LEARN from guys; don't offer yourself up to them so easy... just saying. Too many girls do that ALL the time...it's a turn off after a while.
 
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