If I know I am gay, why do I enjoy hooking up with women so much?

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Sean

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I'm 21, and recently came into terms with my sexuality. For years, I thought I was a bisexual male ... when I was in my teen years I got excited at the sight of a nude woman, but it's been years since a woman has turned me on sexually. Guys give me butterflies .. I dream about guys ... etc.
BUT for some reason, I enjoy hooking up with women. Every time I go out, women are all over me and none ever suspect that I am gay. And I mean some REALLY good looking women act all interested in me. So I always make out with them but whenever I do, it feels odd... like I think too much about what I am doing and feel nothing just saliva/tongues. I never get turned on, but apparently they always want to. Is this normal? I don't think I'm bi or anything. Is it cause I feel some sort of masculinity/achievement when women are all over me?
 
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deadt

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I think you're feeling a sense of pride and accomplishment when women are all over you like that. I'm gay, too, and even though I like guys, it makes me feel awesome when girls like me, too.
 
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WitnessTruth

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no, you just get an ego boost from it. its the same for women who like other women. when they kiss a man they feel nothing but tongue/saliva but when they kiss a girl its complete passion to say the least. but when a man is all over them it just makes them feel pretty
 
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eliza

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I don't just think it's a masculinity thing. I get the same thing with men. I think it's just knowing people want you and it boosts your ego. It doesn't necessarily have anything to do with sexuality, it's just confidence. For example, many girls flirt with guys that they aren't actually attracted to as a confidence booster. Its perfectly normal, and you probably shouldn't think too much of it.
 
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