If you were having an affair with a married man would you introduce him to

[normanco55555]

your new boy friend? I have been involved with a married man for 3 years. We are in love but we both understand that this could never become more than a fling. If the truth ever came out about our relationship I would be devastated. I never intended to become so enamored with this man but his charm and charisma won me over and I couldn't help myself. He is much older than me, has been married 3 times and has children with all 3 wives. That is just too much baggage for me to ever consider him as something more, and I know he won't leave his wife for me...he would stand to lose too much. He moved to another state so we don't see as much of each other anymore, but the flame is still there. Rest assured I know how awful all of this seems but his wife treats him terribly and we share so many common interests.
My problem is that I became reacquainted with a guy I dated before I became involved with the married man. He is my age and I can see the possibility of a long-term relationship developing with him. Would it be wrong of me to arrange for the three of us to have dinner?

 

[kpopp]

Definitely wrong! Yes, I know you want to compare them but, don't you have any idea how this meeting would make them feel?

 

[Happyl2]

I think it's a great idea to get them together and explain everything, so that what you're doing is above-board, and nobody has any false expectations going forward.

 

[StaceylMarieJ]

Ha ha ha.
He told you his wife treats him terribly? No, he is just greedy.
Just a hunch but unless your boyfriend is a freak, i don't think he would be up for meeting the man who had been there before him.

 

[Joe]

Wooopie another home wrecking hoe on M&D.




Hope you both get caught.

 

[ankitachadha]

i think you have the answer but want to avoid it.
go with your present not with your dreams.