if you were me, would u say something?

[claire s]

basically ive been with my hubby now for 10 years and i remember meeting his parents for the first time and them looking at me like something theyd wipe off there shoe, theyve always spoken to me, but i get a cold feeling when the do, i really dont think im imagining it, well his dads never really bothered much with our kids, his view is you have them you bring them up, which is fare enough as we hardly ever go out, but theres another grandchild now, my hubbys niece and oh my is she treated different than my kids, shes bought stuff constantly were as my kids only get stuff for there bdays and xmas and then sometimes he doesnt come here he gets someone else to, yesterday was the last straw i nearly said something, my hubbys sister live 3 doors away from me, yes only 3 doors, he can manage 2 go there 2 see her kid but cant manage 2 go a few doors more and see our kids, he will say he was busy of was going somewhere which is crap..i almost said to him yesterday how many grandkids do u
have but i didnt cos i didnt want to cause trouble, but do u think i should have said something, its not fare on my kids, they will see his car parked outside her house and my oldest son will come in, in a strop and say granddads there again and he didnt come 2 see me, all i can say is, tell your granddad not me, i feel for my kids and wonder why there treated differently, do you think we should talk to him about this or just let him carry on, what would u do..im just thinking of my kids, they deserve 2 be treated like grandkids 2, any views thanx