threaten to ruin her cell phone? My dad told me that if I was texting (or even sexting) other guys than my boyfriend, either he or my boyfriend would ruin my cell phone and will never forgive me and disown me but will forgive my brother for doing something similar to a girlfriend. It's a double standard. Do you think its wrong for parents to to that to their daughters if she texts other guys than her boyfriend and to encourage the boyfriend to smash her cell phone just because she's texting other guys? Did you ever get mad at your daughter for texting (or sexting) other guys than her boyfriend and threaten to ruin her cell phone? I would like it if you could answer honestly. Thanks.