hi, im 20 yrs. old im in a relationship with a 43 year old man. we always argue like every single day i have love for him but i don't feel IN LOVE with him.I've left him twice and he calls me and says things will be different and breaks down and sobs. the second time he came to my mothers home around 12 am and wouldn't leave until i came i out BUT i got back with him he cries, he says he needs me and loves me. i have a toddler and he calls him daddy. we have been together for a year he made me get a restraining order on my sons dad.He's sort of controlling example: he doesn't want me to see male doctors because he says they're all pervs. but at the same time he supports me he pushed me to start college he says im beautiful that he wants me to be his wife. what is your opinion on all of this?