i told 2 or 3 old friends from high school that im a lesbian (saw them on facebook) well one blabber mouth has already gone around telling everyone. One girl even told me she was telling them. should i disown her as a freind. I thought it wasnt cool to "out" people. Its up to them to tell. so should i feel totally violated? Btw im 30 and these are people i went to high school with, but still live in the same area.