I'm in TEARS need to vent and get some advice?

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I have had people tell me on here that I am a spoiled brat, and wanted your opinion. Also some sympathy would be nice.

I had a party while my parents were gone and my dad said Mario (also a police officer) and family friend would come and check on me I didn't believe my dad but sure enough he did come and I was drunk it was bad, and I REALIZE I made a mistake.

I'm soo upset now my dad came home a couple of nights ago after work, and started screaming at me and was REALLY pissed about everything, and To make it worse, I started screaming at him and he grounded me until NOVEMBER . He didn't leave so I pushed him and that really got him angry and he just radioed one of his co-workers. I also told him to **** off which made him more pissed off. I want to be close to my dad like I used to be.

I only told him to **** off because He was screaming at me and I got into a lot of trouble and was upset.
I'm 16 and I'm sooo mad that the stupid asshole took my car keys.
Last night, I tried apologizing to my dad but he didn't believe that it was sincere.
 
Well you probably shouldn't have been so agressive with your dad since you knew you did something wrong. It's not like he was yelling at your for nothing. It will take time for trust to be gained back, but maybe apologizing would help. Also tell him what he did to make you upset and maybe an apology will be made by him. Maybe that will be a start to mending the relationship.
 
hahaha, you are spoiled. you are as spoiled as milk in November that expired in august and left in the sun all that time.

you deserve what you got.
 
Try being alone with him and express your deepest apologies, or write down everything you feel and give him the letter.
I guess to him it is frustrating that he cannot trust you anymore because you screwed up they way you did, and that he is seeing his daughter act like the way she did.
After that, the best thing you both can do, is talk it out as calm as possible.
If you feel that you are getting angry, tell him to hold on a moment so you can cool down.
Hopefully, that will help.
 
You are very lucky that you weren't grounded until January. You get absolutely NO sympathy from me. None. You ARE a spoiled brat and owe you father a BIG apology. The very idea of pushing your father and telling him to ***** off. He should have had you put in juvenile detention.
 
Is this a joke or are you that dumb? No sympathy here. As long as your under your parents roof and they say no party, you better play the rules or get out. I'll tell you another thing, you don't disrespect your father by calling him names and pushing him in his own home. If you think your such a grown up woman that you can handle a party and getting drunk, then why couldn't you handle the consequences like a woman instead of acting like a little kid?

You are a spoiled brat and you need to grow up and that's the only way your going to be close to your dad again.
 
you broke your father's trust & disappointed him. accept responsibility for what you did & accept your punishment.

he should have grounded you until you turn 18.

no sympathy here.
 
You deserve that for throwing the party. You get no sympathy from me.
 
You never should have swore at him. Or pushed him. If he came home and yelled at you, you should have taken responsibility for throwing the party, not throw a temper tantrum. I know it`s hard to not yell at your parents back but try to be more mature about the situation. Good luck!
 
I don't know if spoiled brat is the right term for you, but you definitely sound like a jerk. Since you realized you made a mistake (so you say anyway), you should have just apologized and taken your punishment instead of acting like a 5 year old.
 
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