I'm not quite sure were to start with this. I've never been the most social guy. I just got out of a relationship with my first girlfriend and now I'm feeling like she used me to get over her ex. And now I feel like I can't get another girlfriend. I've never had a girl interested in me before and she just dumped me. That's not something I go out and tell everyone in person but it's making me lose some confidence in myself. I'm 19 and everyone I see seems to be older or married or just not into someone who hasn't made something of himself yet. I've never really been very social either. If someone wants to have a conversation I can carry it but I always feel strange when I start it. I live in the suburbs in chandler arizona and I never really learned any places people go. It didn't help that I moved recently and just came back to chandler. Were do I meet women? Maybe even people in general.